oh, the how to be a lady one! Gag me. Still have it on my dash of course, but most of those makes me raise my eyebrows more than it makes me nod.

To be honest... at least, when I say genderfuck, I mean always a girl/boy, genderswitch/swap then, in my head, the character goes from one gender to another within the story. Genderbend can mean both.